You’re About to Learn the Secret Method That Will Help Cure Your Teen’s Addiction to Pornography Using Real Insights Into the Human Mind That No One Else Reveals

  Why I Knew I Had THE Answer No One Else Had

I decided if I can be part of the solution, I would share what I have learned.

My name is Tony Litster.

I’m a life coach and a speaker. For the last several years I have been teaching people how to create what they wanted in their lives. People from all over the world have hired me to help them design their lives. I have worked with pro athletes, musicians, authors, business owners, stay at home moms. I’ve worked with and helped everyone from multi millionaires to recovering drug addicts.

I have spent thousands of hours one on one with people in the most private and vulnerable aspects of their lives, helping them to experience what they wanted in life. And I only got paid if I got results for the clients. SCARY STUFF! Therefore I had to figure out what worked, and what didn’t - And quickly!

I noticed an interesting trend as I took people through the process I am offering to your and your teen. Habits that had plagued them for years started to change. When they worked with me, even though they didn’t initially hire me to help them with compulsive behaviors, they would begin to get better control of those behaviors

One client had struggled with compulsive feelings around pornography since he was twelve. This went on for almost 20 years. It was something that he was ashamed of, but he kept going back. He hired me to take his business to the next level, not to work on his bad habits. But something interesting happened. He went through the process you are going to experience, and he started to be more balanced in his life. People would see him, and ask him what had changed in his life because he looked different. He knew the answer. He was living in harmony with his inner voice and his life had clarity and purpose. After he went through this process, he told me about the habit from the past, and that he hadn’t viewed pornography for more than a year. Even though he had earned over twenty thousand dollars that month, his freedom from porn addiction was worth more to him than any amount of money. A few years later, I saw him at his wedding, and he had created a healthy, loving relationship and was moving forward with the life he really wanted to live.

Another client told me:

"There came a point in my life where I realized that I was not facing reality and trying to find ways to escape. My life continued to spiral downward as my craving for 'whatever' was becoming unhealthy. What I didn’t realize was that there were so many other people in the world that have had similar experiences... food, alcohol, sex, ‘the internet'... the cravings seem to get worse as the years passed. Then I found out about 'Cure The Craving', a program that really talked about the exact challenges that I was experiencing in my life. Tony seemed to so clearly understand what steps needed to be taken to stop the vicious cycle of avoiding reality. Through seemingly simple exercises my life has been completely transformed. I am truly grateful for this program and the difference it has made in my life. Thank you Tony, from the bottom of my heart." ( T.R. - February 2009)

I could go on and on with similar stories. What did they all have in common?

These clients all took the car and steered it and used the gas and the brake pedal to ease it down the hill. They didn’t use the “quick fix” of the guardrail. They made changes from WITHIN...

And that’s when I knew I was onto something.

  Applying Breakthroughs in Brain Science - Why The Methods I Use Give a PERMANENT Solution ... and The Problem With The Gap.

These clients took the steps to clear out the emotional junk from the past, and took action in the process you are going to experience. When they did this, the old patterns shifted and they began to experience what they really wanted in life.

So if change is this easy, why haven’t more people moved past their old habits and into the life they dream is possible?

The answer is between the ears. The brain.

See, your brain’s job is to keep you alive. Not to keep you successful, or happy, or even healthy. It is designed to keep you alive.

Part of the way it does this is by constantly creating equilibrium or balance in our environments. An example of this is when someone smokes. Initially, the body resists the chemicals that come with tobacco. But because most people don’t listen to their bodies when they smoke, the brain eventually says: "allright, it looks like we are going to have to deal with all of these chemicals, so let’s create equilibrium with them". The brain deals with it, and learns to survive.

Then when the person realizes one day that smoking doesn’t serve them anymore' and they decide to quit, the brain says: " Whoa! - wait a minute, we want our old chemicals..."

The body and brain will then do everything in their power to restore that equilibrium. They will create all kinds of emotions to get things back to normal. Anxiety, craving, depression, fear, you name it, the body and brain will throw it out there.

And if the person resists the emotions long enough to get through what I call "the gap", the brain will eventually create equilibrium again with the new environment.

It’s this gap that keeps most people from changing. They attempt to change, and their brain resists it. As soon as they run into the emotions of resistance, they go back to the old behavior, even though it doesn’t serve them.

Further down, you’ll find out HOW I deal with "The gap" in a way that is EFFECTIVE; a way no-one else does.

The brain studies have shown that the brain releases all kinds of chemicals while someone is viewing pornography. Several endorphins are released, including adrenaline, serotonin, and dopamine. This is similar to what happens when someone uses cocaine. Did you hear that? Chemically, it’s very similar to using cocaine!

  Pornography - More Addictive Than Cocaine!

And many recovering drug addicts say it was easier to quit cocaine than to stop pornography addiction.

Along with the endorphins, there are some chemicals released with the shame that accompanies the behavior. These have a tranquilizing and numbing effect. It’s a combination of adrenaline, feel good endorphins, like dopamine, and finished with a tranquilizing effect.

You think self control is going to overcome chemicals like that?

See, change is dangerous to the brain. The brain fears the unknown. It would rather keep things the same than have to figure out how to survive in a new environment. The feelings of fear when we try to change a behavior are very real. It is the same chemical experience of being chased by a lion.

The only way people usually make it through the gap of change, is if there is something very painful pushing them forward. The brain is wired to avoid pain and seek pleasure. That’s why if there is a strong enough reason to change, people will get through the gap. Sometimes it’s the pain of a life threatening illness, or a painful consequence that gets someone through the gap. A family member of mine quit smoking when she found out she was pregnant. She had a strong motivator to get through the gap.

Brain Studies show: If you introduce a new thought, with emotion every day for about 30 days, it creates a new neural pathway in the brain. If you continue to reinforce the new thought with emotion for about 90 days, it becomes the primary neural pathway. Or on a cellular level,

it becomes who you are.

The other way to get through the gap, and this is the process he will experience with my program, is to continue to reinforce the new belief system long enough for it to take hold in the brain.

This is what the brain studies have shown: Whenever you think a thought with emotion, it releases chemicals into the body. If you introduce a new thought, with emotion every day for about 30 days, it creates a new neural pathway in the brain.

Does that make sense? It becomes a new habitual thought pattern in the brain. This is how you get through the gap. You continue to reinforce the new emotions until they take hold.

And the studies also show that if you continue to reinforce the new thought with emotion for about 90 days, it becomes the primary neural pathway. Or on a cellular level, it becomes who you are.

Did you hear that!

He can create lasting change in his life and finally break his addiction, but he has to know how to work with the machine that he has. He needs to learn to understand how his brain works, and how to get what he wants from it.

It also means that if he views pornography, he releases powerful chemicals into his body. If he continues to do this over 30 days, it creates a new neural pathway for this habit and if he continues for 90 days, this habit becomes a primary neural pathway in his brain. He literally gets wired to keep repeating this habit.

And I’ve already told you how dangerous the combination is of this addiction at this young and impressionable of an age.

  Replacing the Bad Program His Brain Is Running With a Good Program That Results in Lasting Changes

I tell my clients this all the time: The machine is not broken. It just has been running on a bad program. It is running the bad program perfectly. We just need to put a good program in place.

So how do you do this?

How do you create lasting change?

I like to look at how we learned in the first place.

Consider this,

You were born in a body you didn’t create, to parents you didn’t choose. You showed up on a place on the planet, at a time in history, into a culture, and a religion, and a family that wasn’t your doing.

You had to figure out how to survive in an environment first physically, and later emotionally. People started telling you how to stand, and how to dress, and when and where to relieve yourself. They told you how to talk and how to think, and they said to you over and over:

You are...

You are...

You are... .

Until you eventually said:

I am.

Before you had any say, the programs were put in place. And some of those programs don’t serve you.

You learned primarily in two ways:

First, through peak emotional experiences. When something happened that was dangerous, or exciting, or sad, or scary, the event was anchored in the neural pathways of your brain, and in your body. This was done to keep you alive. If something was dangerous, or painful, your brain would help you avoid this in the future. If something was pleasant, you would be drawn to repeat that activity.

And second, through repetition. Through repetitive training, mostly unintentional repetitive training, you were taught to act like your family. For good or for bad, you had to learn to survive in that environment. You adopted many of their belief systems.

You began to develop an emotional self image. This is how you emotionally view yourself.

The amazing part about this emotional self image is that you get in life what fits this self image. If something shows up that is bigger than this self image, you will get it out of your life. If something shows up smaller, you will declare that you are better than that, and seek out what fits this self image.

I know someone who won the lottery when she was young. It was more money than what fit her self image. She started giving it away and eventually got rid of it and got back to her self image of being just above broke.

Another friend had a self image that people took advantage of him. He was the nicest guy, and always gave people the benefit of the doubt, but over and over, people would cheat him. I heard one woman comment that when people got married they "just grew old and fat together", because that’s what her parents had done. Sure enough, she had a weight problem.

And the thing about this emotional self image is that we didn’t choose it. It chose us. It was just how we learned to cope and survive our environment. These are usually not conscious choices. Even when we become aware of it, they continue to run.

And they will continue to run, unless we actively reprogram them!!

So how do we reprogram the self image?

The same way we learned in the first place.

Peak emotional experiences- where we feel positive emotions around what we want to experience, and we continue to reinforce these feelings every day.

And through repetition of the beliefs we want to create.

Remember that people said to you over and over: you are, you are, you are... until you eventually said:
"I am!"

We take this same method and use it to incorporate new beliefs and emotions that serve your teen.

  Your Goal as a Parent: Help Him Practice Sustainable Habits to Replace the Bad Ones

Your goal as a parent in this program is to help him practice sustainable habits so he continues them when he is on his own.

What are some of those sustainable habits?

Filtered internet use - so its not constantly teasing him
Healthy computer use- developing the long term habit of being able to use a computer and not being triggered by the temptation to look at porn. This can only happen if he gets the practice of using it. Someday he will have his own computer. Teach him to use it appropriately now by removing access to temptation.
Listening within- he needs to learn to listen to his body’s signals and get his physical and emotional needs met in healthy ways. The more closely he listens, the less cravings he will experience. The body sends subtle messages at first, and then later, stronger messages until it gets its needs met.
Balance, stillness- this is not taught in our culture. He needs to make this a lifestyle, or the cravings will come back.
Healthy releases- he must develop habits of triggering the feel good chemicals in the body in healthy ways that have positive side effects.
Communicating- he needs to learn to express what is going on inside of him. He can only do this if his parents create a space where he can show up honestly without being condemned or punished.
Self understanding- he has to learn to accept the feelings he has without shaming himself
Not always living on the edge- although there is a lot of adrenaline found in living under pressure, this is also the time when the body creates cravings for extreme releases.
Good eating, sleeping and exercise habits - These help to control his cravings physically
Strong self image- he needs to reinforce the belief that he has infinite worth. This is a powerful tool in transcending the shame cycle.
Vision of future- he needs to learn to use his ability as a co-creator of his life through visualizing with real intent. This helps replace the habit of fantasy.

Without these and other sustainable habits, his body will crave the old release. This will be a new path for him, and he needs your example and support to walk it. I can help show him HOW to create this sustainable habits., but it’s up to you to do all you can to support and encourage him every step of the way.

  What Clients Got In The Original $1,000.00 Program...And the Same Level of Help He Can Get for a FRACTION of That

Music for His Brain

1) I have put together the technology where we record his voice speaking the new beliefs to himself, and then we mix his voice with Mozart music. Mozart music has been proven in studies to stimulate the left and right sides of the brain. Using special words and phrases that I’ve developed, he can literally reprogram his brain with new beliefs and emotions -thereby changing his behavior.

Audio Reprogramming

2) In addition I created an audio program that helps people implement these steps in their lives. It is a 21 day program to help him create lasting change. Thousands of people have had amazing results by using this program to help them get through the gap and reprogram their emotional self image.

But do you want to know the challenge?

3) He gets a weekly call. Most people can’t get themselves through the gap. That’s why people would hire me to personally coach them along the way. Each week we would talk, and it would keep them on track with their goals. It would remind them of the process. Each week they would learn how to fully incorporate it in their lives. And over about 90 days, they would start to experience miraculous results.

By having a weekly phone conversation, it would keep them on track. If they fell off track that week, it would get them back on track. The weekly call made all the difference to them. It was the support structure they needed to keep moving forward.

But I can only talk to a few people a week.

I contemplated this dilemma for a couple of years. I knew about tools and processes that really help people to change. But there is only one of me and I can only talk to one person at a time.

The other common concerns that came up were:

People wanted to remain anonymous.

Some people couldn’t handle going online at all.

Many of the other online programs were expensive.

Coaching with me one on one was very expensive.

  The Breakthrough Secret Weapon – Group Training Calls!

Then it came to me. I discovered that I could set up conference lines and take several people at a time through this process. In a one to many format, I could give them a step by step system, one week at a time, and keep them in the game. Keep them moving towards the changes they wanted. Keep them on track. It gave them the support they needed. It gave them real tools for real change. I could teach them the new beliefs, one idea at a time, one week at a time. Brick by brick, they would build a new house and break porn addiction completely.

It was also a lot easier for people struggling with this challenge to get on the phone, instead of getting online. They could break the habit away from the place of challenge and then eventually get back to using the internet in healthy ways.

And using all of the tools of reprogramming available, they would begin the long journey of rewiring their brain. This time with a program that served them. With a program to have joy in their life.

The first groups of people paid almost $1,000 to be a part of this program. And they got remarkable results. Real change in their life. No quick fix, wishy washy testimonials. Real lifestyle changes.

I knew I had to get the price down to a range that everyone could afford.

I have named the new streamlined program

"Cure The Craving"

  Here’s What He’ll Learn Through My "Cure the Craving" Program

What’s in Every Call?

In one word - TRUCKLOADS!

Here’s just a small sample of what he’ll learn, an in the order he’ll learn it:

• 4 things he DOESN’T HAVE to do + 1 that he MUST do for the program to work.
• What are the 7 fears that can pop up PLUS an on-the-spot short simple exercise to get rid of them.
• The different motivations that draws a person to pornography
• The three chemicals that make pornography the drug of choice in the 21st century.
• How to create a new belief about who he is and what he can be.
• Why it’s completely possible for him to have a healthy fulfilling life - physically healthy, emotionally healthy, and spiritually healthy. Find out WHY for "sexual addiction recovery" to be PERMANENT, a program needs to address the WHOLE person, not just the sexual aspect.
• What to do when cravings show up, rather than him just sitting there and enduring it ...he can do this instead.
• A tool UNIQUE to Tony’s program so he can have his own affirmations, complete with background music that triggers both left and right hemispheres of the brain. NO OTHER PROGRAM OFFERS THIS INCREDIBLY POWERFUL LEVERAGE. Many programs give the IN-formation for the left brain but lack the TRANS-formation which also requires the right brain.
• Three activities that have helped hundreds in sexual bondage break free and why they work.
• How he can handle the withdrawal process that comes with masturbation.
• A powerful technique that stills the chatter of the mind.
• Equipment he can use so he can meditate like a Zen monk at the touch of a button - in a fraction of the time—easily and effortlessly. This tool takes you through this process of decompressing your emotional nervous system by taking your brain to this place of rejuvenation and it takes your body to this deep settled relaxing place. And all he does is sits back and listens.
• How particular healthy behaviors reprogram the brain for a new way of life and income.
• What are the various unmet emotional needs and triggers which cause destructive behavior? How to analyze triggers and deal with them.
• How he can reprogram himself when he has emotional wounds, trauma and abuse.
• Learn when and why sexual fantasies are harmful.
• How a certain scientific experiment done with dogs give us a clue what’s happening within his mind. Why he sets a powerful goal and then does everything in his power not to reach the goal so it creates a disconnect and there is cognitive dissonance between what he visualizes and what you get... and how to turn this around.
• How to break the shame cycle and so he can stop feeling bad about himself.
• A simple tool that works every time .... and people have paid me THOUSANDS for it!
• Uncovering fears, beliefs, self-image and life pattern issues ... and what to do to break them.
• WHO he should be transparent with and who NOT to be. This is CRITICAL for first recovery and then wholeness. I explain the details, ins and outs, advantages and disadvantages of who to choose.
• How to deal with withdrawal systems.
• How to make yearnings productive. How to fulfill the emptiness on an ongoing basis.
• Why those who get hooked on pornography are also those who can turn that very personal characteristic that hooked them ...into being some of the most successful people on earth. The answer will both surprise you and give your teen incredible hope.
• The single greatest key to healing and restoration and how to get it and apply it.
• Incredible insights and advice from one of the leading experts in the country in men’s health & sexual dysfunctions. This expert uses scientific studies.
• Which internet filters are effective and why
• How diet effects his craving and the best things to eat to help him stabilize his emotions.
• How and when he can become more emotionally stable
• The tools that spell the difference between victory and defeat.
• The 6 things he really wants, but turns to porn instead. He’ll learn how to quench his cravings for these 6 things in a healthy way.
• How sleep affects porn cravings and the best kind and amount of sleep to get in order to speed healing.
• Insights from the foremost expert in neurolinguistic programming (NLP) in the country, so he can make changes with what he tells himself.
• The only permanent way he can fill the void

  Here is how it works

When you sign up for my “Cure the Craving” program, YOU will get access to a free blog AND free teleconference series specifically created for parents to help with their teen’s recovery.

Here’s what he’ll get:

1) 12 Conference Calls

Every week, he’ll get on a conference call with me. The calls last about an hour. In a one-to-many setting, I will take you through the steps of porn addiction recovery that have worked for others. Real long term change.

Each week, I will build on the ideas from the previous weeks. He will reinforce his new beliefs over and over. I will discuss belief systems. I will talk about how the brain works when creating life change. I will talk about emotions and compulsive behaviors.

In this no holds barred conversation; (and I even address the Big M that nobody likes to mention - MASTURBATION). He will take a good look inside and see what has been driving his behavior. He will implement simple tools that really work to rewire the belief systems. I will talk about dealing with breakdowns. How to handle emotions. What to do when in a challenging environment. How to handle cravings. What are the triggers.

I will discuss tools for creating healthy releases. He will create the vision of the life he wants to experience. He will put a plan in place that he can live with on a daily basis to make that vision a reality. He will get in touch with what has been going on inside him. He will face fears that have held him back in the past.

I found with the first groups that went through this process that sometimes people had questions come up along the way. They wanted a place where they could bring this up. Many of the questions were similar, and it helped to hear what others were experiencing. So to as an added benefit of the program, I decided that one week a month, I would dedicate the call to a question and answer session. I would open the lines, and he can bring any question he wants to the table. In an anonymous setting, people can ask questions and bring up sensitive subjects and get answers. Nothing is off limits on the Q&A calls.

In addition to the weekly call, I found that sometimes people need a little reminder. A little something to keep their head in the game.

2) The 10 Minute Call

I set up an additional call each week, that lasts only about 10 minutes, where he can have a quick check in to see how he’s been doing that week. It’s done in the same one to many format as the weekly call, so they can call in and keep their vision clear in between the weekly calls.

Remember what the studies said about change in the brain?

If you introduce a new thought, with emotion every day for about 30 days, it creates a new neural pathway in the brain.

Does that make sense? It becomes a new habitual thought pattern in the brain. This is how he gets through the gap. He continues to reinforce the new emotions until they take hold.

And the studies also show that if he continues to reinforce the new thought with emotion for about 90 days, it becomes the primary neural pathway. Or on a cellular level, it becomes who he is.

Over the 90 days, he will continually reinforce the emotions he wants to experience. He will continually reinforce the vision of the life he wants to live. He will reprogram himself the same way he learned as a child. And by sticking with it, he creates lasting change.

3) The Lifeline call

Many of the people that worked with me commented that there were times when the cravings were really strong. Times when they could just use some extra help to get through a tough situation. My personal clients would call me in these moments, and I would help them get back on track.

Through the technology we use, I have created a call that is available 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Its called the Lifeline Call. This is a short call that will talk him through tough moments of sexual addiction support and get him back on track. As a participant in the program, he can call the Lifeline Call as often as he wants. Whenever he needs a little help refocusing, this powerful tool is available.

Change is all about re-training the brain to react differently. These tools give him the support structure to do this training.

4) The 21 Day Audio Program

The people that used all of the tools, in addition to the weekly calls seemed to get the best result.

So as a bonus to the 90 Days to Create Lasting Change, I am including the 21 day program download and the customized affirmations. Just these two tools sell for $170.00 on my website.

So as a recap, Cure the Craving Program includes:

1. 1 Hour weekly call to put his plan together and execute it one week at a time
2. Monthly Question and Answer session with me
3. And as a bonus, a
4. 10-Min weekly check in call to keep him on track
5. Lifeline Call
6. Water Weed Repeat, 21 Days to Reprogram Your Self Image and Create Lasting Change
7. Personal Customized Affirmations

  My 30-Day Money Back Guarantee

I believe that this porn addiction support program works when he take the steps in his life. I am so confident that he will make great progress in this program that I will give him the first 30 days to experience it risk free. If for whatever reason he’s not benefiting from the program during the first 30 days, you may cancel and receive a 100% refund.

Not only will I refund your investment, but you can keep the 21 Day Audio Program download and the customized affirmations. That is a $170.00 value.

There is really nothing to lose.

  I’ve Seen Miracles!

have seen powerful changes. Miracles. Not every single person experiences a miraculous turn-around, but most make excellent progress and that gives me hope.

Creating lasting change. That is what this is about. And it will take a long-term approach. No quick fix. Real change. Are you ready to make that possible for him?

Now, I don’t want to throw every other program under the bus. Anyone who puts out a program is doing it to help people. They are well meaning and I applaud their efforts. I admire their courage to reach out and do something. We need much more of this in our world.

But I’m looking for real change. A new emotional world....

So if you and your teen are ready to take this journey- welcome.

Welcome aboard.

Here’s The Incredible Value of This Program:

CDs and Affirmations ...................................... $170.00 value Weekly call value ($100 per call x 12 calls) .... $1200.00 value Check in call ($25 per call x 12 calls) .............. $300.00 value Lifeline Call ....................................................... Invaluable   Total value ........................................................ $1670.00     All for a Special price: .......................... $297.00 for 90 Days!

Just think of what this would cost your family otherwise:

Therapy ........................ $90 per session ...... $320 per month Group program ........... $45 per session ....... $180 per month Divorce Attorney ......... $250 per hour ........ $11,000 average Average cell phone bill .   $129 per month Average tank of gas ......   $46.00 per tank     TOTAL: .................... $11,675 + in comparable value, all for only $297 for 90 Days!

Remember, you have nothing to lose...if you act now.

If you don’t, it will only be harder for him later...

I’m here to support you and help your teen heal.

Your friend,